Are you constantly seeking the approval of others? Do you need the backing of another before you make a step or a decision? Do you constantly need to be told you are right?

If you liked something (i.e. a shoe you had seen previously) and you had made up you mind to get it, but you went with a friend. On getting there you show your friend the shoe only for her to point out a flaw in the shoe. Deep inside you don’t see anything wrong in getting the shoe but you can’t bring yourself to form your thoughts it words. So you let go of the shoe and settle for another, outside you seem quite pleased by inside you are deeply saddened. You rather not be satisfied than to go for something not approved by others.

Why would you want to go through life like that. Why would you rather please others and displease yourself. Remember you are your first priority in this life (aside from God and your Family). Stop seeking Validation and expect acceptance instead.

Would you feel good of yourself regardless of if no one told you how beautiful you are. When you look in the mirror do you see a gem or do you see a mere stone. It is time for you to not rely on others but stand on your own two feet.

You are great, you are smart and most importantly you are unique. Don’t let anyone tell you any different. Tell yourself πŸ’•πŸ’‹πŸ’ƒπŸΎπŸ’πŸΎπŸ‘ΈπŸΎ.

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